Alienation is a crime!

September 24, 2013 2316

            I apologize to my readers for the interruption. However, I am telling the story of my life via this blog, so I cannot leave out the ridicules.

“Parental alienation syndrome (PAS) affects some children of divorced parents. In cases of PAS, one parent works to turn the child against the other parent. This complicates issues of custody and visitation rights of the parents, which makes PAS an important consideration in divorce court. Important case law on the subject has been made in many U.S. states.”Read more: http://www.ehow.com/about_6525266_parental-alienation-case-law.html#ixzz2fuSH4mRO

             I received a message this morning at 0915 from Harold Sprague via Facebook.    

This is Harold:

(Picture is proudly displayed on FB) 

            Just to be clear, Harold is not anyone I know and from the looks of this picture would not probably ever care to know.  He clearly has no self-respect if he can behave this way on the Internet, but I don’t want to get on my soapbox about lost morals and values in this country.  It is obvious by the message I received that the woman who doesn’t know her place sent it to me, I guess to prove my point that she goes where she is unwanted, uninvited, and does not belong. 

“Alienated children often make accusations toward the targeted parent that utilize phrases and ideas adopted from the alienating parent. Indications that a scenario is borrowed include the use of words or ideas that the child does not appear to understand, speaking in a scripted or robotic fashion, as well as making accusations that cannot be supported with detail.” Read more: http://www.socialworktoday.com/archive/102708p26.shtml 

            I write only to say…. and I roll my eyes and make a silent prayer to my God because some things are just to benighted for my time….But, I write to say I have read the court papers.  I have been aware of all of The Goat Man’s six children since each of their births (including the youngest two).  It seems I have personally known The Goat Man since you were in diapers.  Please have more information that me before you try to “enlighten” me in anyway.  I know a lot about The Goat Man.  We grew up together.  Our families have been intertwined in the same small town since before any of us were born.  I will of course take your comments under advisement.

            The two of you did not make it and he is no longer your concern.  I am sure he is flattered you spend so much time thinking about him.  I assure you we (and yes I mean him as well) do not spend any time thinking about you.  Actually, as I write this letter I am irritated at myself for coming down here to this level to partake in drama of all things.  I firmly believe drama is for teenage girls and the puerile.

            I do not care to be apart of your personal drama.  There is a reason we are not friends and it has nothing to do with The Goat Man.  I generally do not like mothers of children who say this to me:

            “I am hungry.  I have not had anything to eat today.”   After asking why they had not eaten any breakfast they responded with, “Mom was high last night and wouldn’t get up this morning and cook me any and there was nothing in the house I knew how to cook.”  (Readers, please be mindful to the fact this wonderful mother’s children are currently nine and eleven years old.)

            That is not The Goat Man’s “lies” that is my personal experience.  This is MY blog and MY story and I write what I personally see.  I am not your friend.  I will never be your friend.  You are not welcome in my life.  Please be mindful of that.  I thought it was obvious by my complete lack of interest toward you, but I can see you have trouble focusing.

            I do find you facetious.  I find myself wondering why you felt the need to send me nonessential comments.  I am not sure if it is guilt, egocentric drama driven nature, or just a need to over-step your place?  Either way thanks for reading my blog, but a more focused individual would not have sent me her broken love story as a defense.   I simply answered your accusation of my interference and I couldn’t care less about your broken heart.

“Alienating parents, on the other hand, may seek emotional comfort from their children and attempt to validate their pain and anger against their ex-spouses by trying to get their children to align with them and them alone. They speak negatively of their exes and subtly communicate their anger in front of the children. Alienating parents often manipulate and use their children to hurt their exes on purpose -- and with a vengeance. They may tell their children that their other parent doesn't love them or doesn't want to see them. They may destroy or hide communication from the other parent. They may give in to their children's desire to avoid the parent, actually encouraging such behavior instead of encouraging their children to have a healthy relationship with their ex.  Signs of Parental Alienation·      Children perceive one parent as causing financial problems for the other parent.
·      Children have knowledge of the divorce details or legal procedures.
·      Children show a sudden hostile, negative change in attitude toward target parent.
·      Children are not delivered for court-ordered visitation and/or are not allowed to "choose" to visit the target parent.
·      False allegations of abuse are made against the target parent.
·      Children are asked to choose one parent over the other.
·      Anger and negativity toward target parent is reinforced.
·      Children are given the impression that if they have a good time with the target parent during a visit, it will hurt them.
·      Children are asked about the target parent's personal life.
·      Children are "rescued" from the target parent when there is no danger. 
 In regards to parental alienation, the judge in the New York decision stated, "... Interference with the non-custodial parent and child's relationship is an act so inconsistent with the best interests of a child, as to, per se, raise a strong probability that the offending party is unfit to act as a custodial parent." Read more: http://www.momlogic.com/2010/06/new_york_dad_and_parental_alienation.php#ixzz2fuTlYXI6

            I have wasted valuable time and brainpower on this post.  I will now return to my regularly scheduled topics…ME!  And to the woman who doesn’t know her place…. Please GO AWAY NOW!